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Ep. 32: What to Do When You Feel Like Quitting

 
Today we’re talking about what to do when you feel like giving up on your side hustle.

For me, there has been only one time in the past 4 years that I have thought about giving up on my side hustle.

When I first started out, I called my business LimePress Development, I spent way too much time on a really beautiful website that was basically an online business card and was not at all positioned to help me get the right kind of clients.

I worked for anyone that would pay me, and I was afraid to charge for my time if it took longer than I thought it would. I was not putting myself out there as an expert. I was not guiding and advising my clients – instead, I was just doing whatever they told me to do.

I didn’t choose the right clients. I didn’t even know how to attract the right clients. In fact, I wasn’t in the right mindset to attract the right clients!

I was not functioning as a web designer, I was functioning as an assistant. Totally not the dreamy job I had imagined when I started.

Even though I know WordPress inside and out, backward and forwards, I didn’t think of myself as an expert, but I thought if I could show people how to use it, they wouldn’t need me to change a font color…

My next idea was going to be brilliant… #not

I abandoned LimePress Development, and I wrote a super boring PDF called 5 Steps to Website Success, spent too much time on a website called Website Essentials Academy, created a Facebook page, and spent $50 on ads that got me about 7 page likes.

I was totally bummed out, I felt lost, and I thought about giving up.

Then last September, my husband won a trip to Nashville from our local sports radio station (finally his never-ending sports trivia knowledge paid off!)

On the plane, I was listening to Smart Passive Income with Pat Flynn and he shared how you can do affiliate marketing with the heart of a teacher and not a sleazeball.

In that moment, something clicked in my brain! I bought wifi on the plane, bought the domain WordPressAlly.com, and the Free 5 Day Website Challenge was born.

And then, a few weeks after launching it, I discovered that I wasn't allowed to use the word WordPress in my business name, so I bought a branding course called Brandgasm 101 to help me figure out a new name, and I came up with WP BFF – WP because I couldn’t use the word WordPress, and BFF because I want you to feel like it’s your best friend forever, your BFF, helping you through this process of getting your business online.

I thought I was just teaching WordPress, I had no idea that it would lead to creating a community super-motivating, supportive entrepreneurs.

So, what if I would have just quit after freelancing blew up in my face?

What if I would have thrown in the towel after getting exactly zero response on Website Essentials Academy?

What if I would have given up after finding out I couldn’t keep the business name I loved?

I’d have crawled right back into that hampster wheel that was my day job and started walking. Right back into my comfy little comfort zone.

Some of you just started a side hustle. Some of you have stopped and started. Some of you are just thinking about it and haven’t done anything yet.

I challenge you to make a decision and move forward. To keep pushing through the roadblocks that pop up. It’s overcoming the obstacles that make it so rewarding. I look back on what things were like vs. 4 years ago and I’m so glad I kept pushing forward.

Think about where you’ll be in a few months, a few years if you just keep going!

If you feel stuck, if you feel like what you’re doing isn’t quite right, if you can’t find the time – DON’T STOP. I’m here to support you. We have a Facebook group you can join where I’m hanging out, ready to help push you and cheer you on. You can join us over at www.shannonmattern.com/facebook and I’ll see you in there!
d for me to remember everything because it’s no longer a mindless routine.


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Then you can sign up for my Free 5 Day Website Challenge at www.shannonmattern.com/5day and I’ll show you step by step how to get started building your new website for your side hustle.